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Why You Should Never Harbour any Regrets

By Robert • Nov 25th, 2008 • Category: Bettering Yourself, Lead Story

I’d like to tell you a little story…
Back in October 2005 my mother suffered a nasty stroke. It left her mostly paralysed down the right hand side of her body. It also badly affected her speech and she now struggles to get her words out.
It was hard for me to see my mother go from [...]



A Non-Gentlemanly Trait - Procrastination

By Robert • Nov 24th, 2008 • Category: Bettering Yourself, Lead Story

Procrastination is the bane of many a gentlemans life. It is so easy to not do that which must be done now.
Let’s face we are all guilty of it at some point or another. The question is how can we avoid falling prey to its deliciously lazy charms and keep productive?

The first thing is to [...]



Clubbing Together

By Robert • Nov 24th, 2008 • Category: Bettering Yourself, Lead Story

A lot of people see clubs as something associated with the teenage or university years, or maybe with rich businessmen and big fancy dinners. It’s also fair to say that most people drift away from clubs as they mature. That’s not surprising when you take in to account the time needed to settle down and [...]



Why You Should Carry a Pen Knife

By Robert • Nov 21st, 2008 • Category: Gentleman Essentials, Lead Story, SidebarFeatures

I sometimes think that we were dealt a rather cruel evolutionary blow.
Yes, we are the dominant species on the planet, but our appendages are pretty limited in what they can do. We are pretty much limited to holding, poking and prodding. Anything else requires the use of a tool of some sort.
Of all the tools [...]



The Tie - The Little Item of Clothing That Has a Big Impact

By Robert • Nov 20th, 2008 • Category: Clothing, Features, Lead Story

The tie can say a lot about its wearer. That seemingly simple piece of cloth around you neck gives away so much information about you without your realising it. A striped necktie can indicate the wearer holds conservative tastes, or maybe went to a certain school. A spotted necktie might indicate the wearer is happy [...]



Dealing with Anger Like a Gentleman

By Robert • Nov 19th, 2008 • Category: Bettering Yourself, Lead Story, SidebarFeatures

There is a saying “Getting angry doesn’t solve anything” and I agree with that saying wholeheartedly. When you are wronged, expressing too much anger can get in the way of finding a solution. Anger can also make you appear to be ungentlemanly or brutish. In this article I will talk about anger and how to manage it when you feel the rage building up inside you.



How to… Get Motivated and Get Things Done

By Robert • Nov 7th, 2008 • Category: How to..., Lead Story

Very few of us are lucky enough to never have an issue with motivation. No matter how much try not to, there are times when we simply cannot bring ourselves to stand up and get things done. In this article I will help you get motivated by writing abotu some of the way you can get over a motivational slump.



Congratters!

By Robert • Nov 6th, 2008 • Category: Random Musings

Congratulations to Barack Obama on winning the US General Election. It was an enjoyable, if long, race. I can tell you this Irishman and his American wife were very happy indeed!
Only a few more months to wait before the next election campaign starts.



Gentlemanly Characteristics: Humility

By Robert • Nov 6th, 2008 • Category: Gentlemanly Charcteristics, Lead Story

Some of the most universally hated traits a man can have is to be a show off, a bragger or to have a massive ego. Someone who displays such traits is clearly stating that they think they are better than others in some way. All this serves to do is to make people dislike or hate them and break up friendships in the process. Humility is the opposite of all that.



The BBC Micro Cake - Nothing to do with being a gentleman*

By Robert • Oct 28th, 2008 • Category: Food and Drink

Recently I got married to a wonderful American named Jennifer. For a Irish lad who grew up in the UK it was quite an experience getting married in the states. One of steateside traditions I loved was the concept of a Grooms cake, something that just doesn’t happen this side of the pond.